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Why nations that fail women fail
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Hi gals, why don't you send that to your new american president?
Top Comment: Yup. When a population designates a group that is an acceptable receptacle for abuse then the rest of the population learns to think like abusers. This extrapolates to every other relationship. This creates a violent society.
Everytime I fail with women, I hate myself more and more.
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I (26m) have friends, family. Social life and hobbies. I have very little experience with women, therefore I suck.
I have many male friends, I don't need any more.i have 0 problem talking to men, I never have.
Anything more than small talk is embarrassing laughable. I fail everytime, but don't know what I do wrong. My regular conversation with guys is video games and sports, it works 99% of the time but women don't care (I don't blame them).
I'm open to negative comments as I know they are coming.
Top Comment:
How many women friends do you have? Zero? Maybe try working on befriending women first if you can't even manage a platonic relationship with us. We're human beings. If you can't connect with us as human beings but only see us as potential gfs, women pick up on that, and we don't find it attractive or appealing. Start from our personhood first.
Not a role we might be able to take in relation to you. We aren't interested in dating someone who sees us as a need fulfillment machine or role. We're interested in dating people who see us and like us for us, not what they can get out of us.
Did women actually fail the WNBA? : NoStupidQuestions
Main Post: Did women actually fail the WNBA? : NoStupidQuestions
FAIL: Maidstone United Women Score THE WORST Goal Of All Time With Massive Assist From Opposing Defence (Video)
Main Post: FAIL: Maidstone United Women Score THE WORST Goal Of All Time With Massive Assist From Opposing Defence (Video)
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Omg
Is there a subreddit about women fails? funny, N.S.F.W, whatever
Main Post: Is there a subreddit about women fails? funny, N.S.F.W, whatever
Top Comment: r/holdmycosmo
I failed at being a girl : r/TheGirlSurvivalGuide
Main Post: I failed at being a girl : r/TheGirlSurvivalGuide
Q4M: How do women fail to treat you “as people” or “as human” in dating?
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Inspired by yesterday’s post:
I see this assertion thrown around here, but few users will give specific answers or examples of how women treat men as unpersons or nonhumans, specifically in dating contexts.
Anyone care to elaborate?
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"Eww"
I'm a 36yo woman and I have failed at everything
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I never got married, never been interested and I am so ugly nobody would want to go out with me anyway. I did have a boyfriend when I was 20-21 but he lied about everything and didn't want to be with someone like that so we broke up. I was also a useless "housewife" (tho we weren't married, I dont know how else to describe it) and even more useless at the things partners are meant to do with each other
I spent most of my teens and 20s playing video games... a mans hobby. I should have given that up in my late teens, maybe early 20s but I didn't give up until about 32 or 33
I've always been obsessed with medieval fantasy, swords + sorcery, dragons, wizards, magic etc and I still read books of it now. Again another man thing. A woman my age should be reading romance and family drama type novels but I have no interest whatsoever in those
It seems if a woman isn't running around after her husband and bringing up kids then they should have a career. I cant even get a basic job because I am so useless nobody wants me. I have nothing at all to offer anyone. No talents or skills. No strengths that would be useful in a workplace. The rare interviews I have these days are more like an interrogation full of tricks and traps. Its a surprise they even ever employ anyone at all... they are so fussy
Also I can't cope when things go wrong. I feel like an idiot and ask other people for help and they just tell me I'm an adult - deal with it. But I cant thats the point. I am so so useless. There really is no point of my existence I cant do anything
None of this seems normal. I am just a massive failure... I have failed at everything
Edit: I forgot... I also cant drive. Another thing I failed at. I had driving lessons for over a year and just failed miserably. A lot of jobs need you to drive (even when there not even driving jobs)
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You are incredible, there are no such things as "man things" i am a man and i love romance as much as fantasy, you don't need to get married who told you that is a dick! Do what makes you happy and be proud of it.